Get Over a Breakup in 30 Days with New App RX Breakup

You don't need Ben and Jerry's anymore!  A new app, called RX Breakup, will help the heartbroken mend their broken hearts in less than 30 days.  This app allows you to have daily tasks that don't let you sit on the couch eating ice cream in your pajamas, with "All By Myself" going through your head.  No obsessive texting and Facebook stalking your ex.  This app keeps you from doing that.  Instead, in 30 days or less, you will be able to get over your hurt feelings, start to move on, and potentially even get back together in a new healthy relationship.

Instead, this app, in conjunction with the accompanying social network component, will help you recover.  It lets you post funny pictures and quotes.  "It's also a way to track other people," says the site's creator. "You can search other people who are on day 5 and you can talk to people who are going through the same thing."

Says the app's creator, Lobell, "the goal of the app is to provide advice for those going through a breakup."  The app is designed to be like talking to your best friend -- a source of comfort.  The apps creator's hope it will help you gain a healthy relationship with yourself.   “OK, this relationship didn’t work out, but it doesn’t mean your relationship with yourself can’t work.,” Reardon tells Yahoo. “That’s the most important thing, is to have a relationship with yourself.”

You can get the app called Rx Breakup on the iPhone and other Apple devices.

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10 Reasons Not to Stay Friends With Your Ex

So the breakup has happened and the big question remains: should you stay friends with your ex?  Breakups suck, plain and simple, whether your relationship was one week or 20 years.  Staying friends after breaking up might seem like a good idea, but should you really do it?  Here are 10 reasons why you might not want to stay friends with your ex. 

1. You will sleep together

Can you really just hang out and be platonic? Probably not.  You're going to get drunk and hook up because that's what you did -- and you are physically attracted to each other.  No late night booty calls -- they'll just make it worse.  

2. You won't be open to new relationships

By staying friends with your ex, you already have a relationship -- with them.  You won't be as open to meeting new people because you will compare them to your ex.  Turn that page of your life and begin anew! 

3. Respect the new flame

If you do happen to meet a new partner, be respectful to them: cut your ex out of your life for good.  Why would your new partner be happy with you speaking to your ex? They won,t so don't do it. 

4. On and off isn't a healthy lifestyle

By staying friends, you will get stuck in an on-again off-again type of relationship.  You will get back together and break up again over and over, which will lead you on a roller coaster of doom.  If you are really meant to be with someone, they won't break up with you.

5. You will always hope to get back together. 

When one couple breaks up, usually it's not a mutual choice.  Usually one person gets dumped and one dumps them.  The dumpee wants to get back together because they still have feelings for the person, so staying friends with them is unfair in the long run and will only increase their suffering.  

6. Breaking up won't be easier if you stay friends

By staying friends, we think that our breakup will be easier to deal with.  We won't have the pain of not seeing or hearing that person we are so familiar with because we are "still friends," but that will only do more damage int he long run. 

7. Someone will get hurt

Even though you feel okay with your break up, seeing your partner move on and in love with someone else is really hard.  So just break up and don't try to still be friends. 

8.  Hanging out isn't going to be fun

You get lunch together and your ex does something you think si cute.  You want to hug them and kiss them.  Guess what? You can't, because friends don't do that, and you can't just turn off your feelings around your ex. 

9.  It's unnecessary

Why do you even need to be friends?  You have other friends.  Go hang out with them and just cut our ex out of your life.  It's okay and totally acceptable to do that.  

10. If you must stay friends, use Facebook

Social media is just fine for staying friends, and you can also unfollow them and get them off your news feed so you don't actually have to think about them ever again! 

If you're really convinced you can get back with your ex, here's how to do it...

Just Broke Up?

These first steps are to help you regain control of a situation where you might initially feel helpless. They will also put you out of dealing any additional harm to your relationship by acting on mere emotions and panic. This period is important and you should embrace it without fear of losing your ex in any way.

Give yourself space to heal

It’s important to accept and even welcome the pain that comes after a break up. You need to let your emotions out and it is recommended to do it alone. It’s absolutely normal and healthy to feel this way. You will feel better after a few days of crying and mourning, just make sure you let your emotions out in a safe and healthy way.

Minimize all contact

In fact it is highly recommended to adhere to the no contact rule. This means no communication with your ex at all. Unfortunately this is easier said than done in 90% of the cases. What you need to be aware of is the more you stay in contact with your ex the more likely they will want to ‘remain’ this way. This is not where you want to stay, unless you want to be seen as a ‘friend’ only.

Let go of any negative emotions

This could be anger towards yourself or anger towards your ex. You need to let go of any bitterness or resentment over anything related to the break up or relationship in order to step forward and move in a new direction. You will feel a huge weight removed from you if you truly allow yourself to let go and make peace with yourself.

Get your head on straight

Once you’re more settled emotionally, get a notebook and write down what exactly went wrong with the relationship. A good tip is to start writing and continue to write as thoughts come to you. This isn’t meant to be read by anyone. Just write everything down and don’t hold anything back. Once you’re done, you’ll be able to see the situation a little clearer.

Steps To Getting Your Ex Back

It’s very likely you’re already at this stage of your break up – when you miss your ex like crazy and can’t think of anything else except getting them back.

Before you should do anything however, there’s a few things you must be aware of.

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